Uma kungenzeka, lungiselela ingane yakho ngaphambi kokufa kwesilwane esifuywayo.

Inja yethu ibigula isikhathi eside ngenxa yokwehluleka kwezinso. Sasazi ukuthi ukuphela kwase kuseduze futhi saqala ukulungiselela indodakazi yethu (eneminyaka engu-4 ngaleso sikhathi). Sikhulume ngendlela ukugula kwakhe obekuhlukumeza ngayo emzimbeni yize udokotela ezama ukumsiza ukuthi alulame. Sichaze umehluko kusukela ngesikhathi egula futhi udokotela uyamsiza. Sasingafuni ukuthi esabe ukugula njengoWinston. Senze isiqiniseko sokuthi wavalelisa ekuseni ngokushona kwakhe. Lesi bekuyisinqumo esinzima ukwenza kodwa ngiyajabula ukuthi sikhethe ukumvumela ukwanga okokugcina.

Phendula imibuzo ngendlela eyiqiniso kodwa efanelekile ngokweminyaka yengane .

U-Olivia wayenemibuzo eminingi ngokugula kwenja yethu nokuthi kungani yayingakwazi ukuba ngcono. Besithembekile kuye ngesifo sezinso nokuthi lokho kusho ukuthini ngokombono wengane eneminyaka emi-4. Wayefuna ukwazi ukuthi kwakuzokwenzekani kuye ngemva kokushona kwakhe. Ngakho saxoxa ngokuthi uWinston wayezojoyina kanjani inja ye-nona epaki elikhethekile lezilwane ezifuywayo ezifile. Saxoxa ngokuthi siyohlala simthanda kanjani ezinhliziyweni zethu ngisho nalapho engekho ngokwenyama.

Vumela ingane yakho ukuba lusizi ukulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo ngendlela yakhe.

Wonke umuntu uba nosizi ngendlela ehlukile futhi izingane nazo zinjalo. Zilungiselele futhi uvulele ukusabela kwengane yakho okungasukela ekukhaleni kuye emzwelweni ophansi noma omncane kakhulu. Asikho isikhathi esinqunyelwe emizweni. Ezinye izingane zingase zibonakale zisheshe zilungise kodwa zifune ukukhuluma ngakho ezinyangeni kamuva. Abanye bangase babe lusizi isikhathi eside. Njenganoma yimuphi umcimbi wempilo yomzwelo, ukubheja okungcono kakhulu ukuthi ube khona nje enganeni yakho lapho kudingeka. Uma unokukhathazeka, ungangabazi ukufuna iseluleko sikadokotela wezingane.

Khuthaza izingane ukuthi zihlanganyele izinkumbulo zezilwane ezifuywayo.

Ngokushesha ngemva kokushona kwakhe, sabelana no-Olivia eziningi zezindaba nezithombe zethu zikaWinston. Samkhuthaza ukuba akhulume ngezinkumbulo zakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zincane kangakanani. "Khumbula ngesonto eledlule lapho uWinston ekukhotha izinzwane zakho futhi kuzwakala kuhlekisa." Simtholele nesithombe sakhe esinefreyimu esikhethekile kanye noWinston segumbi lakhe njengendlela yokumkhumbula.

Xhumana nothisha noma nabanakekeli bengane yakho.

Yazisa othisha noma abanakekeli ngokufa kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo nokuthi uxhumana kanjani nengane yakho. Nikeza imininingwane eminingi ngokusemandleni akho, okuhlanganisa ulimi namagama. Ngaleyo ndlela uthisha uyazi ukuthi kufanele aphendule kanjani ingane yakho uma isifundo sivela.

Gcina inkumbulo yesilwane sakho siphila.

Sanikezela “inkanyezi” futhi saqala isiko lokushiya izibiliboco zezinja ngaphandle. Ngezikhathi ezikhethekile, njengoKhisimusi, uWinston ngezinye izikhathi ushiya isipho esincane ngokubuyisela. Akumele wenze noma yini enemininingwane, kwesinye isikhathi ukwabelana nge-albhamu yezithombe zesilwane esifuywayo kwanele.

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